Kristen Finlayson

Thailand--the land of smiles--is, at once, a rich cultural experience as well as a gay travel Mecca. With 90% of its population following the Buddhist philosophy, homosexuality is widely accepted without protest or judgment. Though an anything-goes policy is in order once the bedroom doors have been closed, visitors should inform themselves on the otherwise modest customs and traditions of this country's fascinating people. Since some of these can be quite unique and unusual to the westerner, it is advised that one do a bit of research on the topic of gay vacations.

For instance, although the sight of two men walking the streets arm in arm may be completely acceptable and normal to the typical Thai person who views this as a simple friendship, a man and a woman holding hands as they walk is not so readily accepted. And though sexual acts are left to the discretion of the involved individuals behind closed doors, public displays of nudity are considered absolutely unacceptable--even wearing shorts and a tank top is questionable in some areas and establishments. You never should one touch another's head, as the head is considered to be sacred. And one should make sure never to point ones feet in the direction of another human being, since this also is viewed as being taboo.

Top visitor destinations for gay tours in Thailand include Bangkok, Phuket, and Chiangmai. Bangkok is the capital of Thailand and a mix of modern and tradition. In the city, there are world class accommodations, fine food, and unparalleled nightlife. Silom is 1 of 3 gay neighborhoods, where visitors will find gay-friendly clubs, massage parlors, go-go bars, cabaret clubs, and saunas. Three major tourist destinations, Bangkok, Pattaya, and Phuket, hold annual gay pride events. If nightlife isn't for you, Bangkok also houses historic temples and palaces immersed in tradition.

There are plenty of nightclubs in Bangkok to satisfy even the most metro of the homosexual travelers. Particular delights are the go-go boy bars that keep the music going into the early hours of the morning. It is happening in Bangkok and a great gay trips destination.

The best time for travel to Thailand is between November and February, as March and April can be quite hot and May through October, the monsoon season, even hotter and more humid. Gay vacations should be booked keeping in mind that the country offers three separate gay pride festivals in the major cities of Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket.

With its many exciting gay destinations, and non-judgmental culture, Thailand is great for gay tours. From beautiful panoramas, sandy beaches, and rich history and tradition, a visit to Thailand will be fulfilling and memorable. And experiencing a culture where the people actually put into practice their spiritual believes makes is even more memorable. While in Thailand make certain that you spend time with the Thai people; get to know a few of them at least a little bit. You will be greatly rewarded for your efforts.